ARE MEN REALLY SCUM???

"Men will show you what?? Shege", "Men will stain your white","Men are scum. Boys are liars"........

I don't really know the lyrics to "Boys are liars", the only line I know is..... Yes, you guessed right 🎶boys are liars 🎶 but you need to see me singing that line like I have been served hot "breakfast".

Ask me which boy has lied to me or even shown me shege. The only shege I have seen is either from my school or Nigeria in general and I know I am not the only one in this boat.That is just to show you how social media has a very big way of forming our opinions.

The internet has also put us under undue pressure and forced some false narratives on us. There's nothing wrong with being single as a teenager. If you are not in a relationship you won't die and your body doesn't have to look a certain because that's what someone likes. It is also not by force to be a baddie. Please face more important things and focus on your personal growth and see how things will work out amazing.

I am not saying we shouldn't learn from other people's experience, all I am saying is we should be mindful of how we soak up everything we see on the internet.

Read that again if you need to.
I love you and you should love you too ,
IMAX 💕💕




Comments

  1. AnonymousApril 28, 2023 at 2:45 PM

    You keep serving with all this blogs♥️♥️

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  2. AnonymousApril 28, 2023 at 2:49 PM

    We are the boat together 😂

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  3. AnonymousApril 28, 2023 at 3:04 PM

    Hmmmmmmmm😭😭

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  4. AnonymousApril 28, 2023 at 3:22 PM

    I've seen my own shege😭

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  5. AnonymousApril 28, 2023 at 7:39 PM

    This is really important honestly what we listen to and absorb whether consciously or unconsciously affects us positively or negatively. Thank you Imax for this!!!

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  6. AnonymousApril 28, 2023 at 11:10 PM

    "It is also not by force to be a baddie" 😅😅😅
    -IMAX
    Thank you so much for this piece...
    I pray God continues to shower you with more and more WISDOM, KNOWLEDGE and STRENGTH to keep on writing these amazing "works of art" !!!! ...
    You're going to be BIG 📸 someday !!
    Okay....
    Adios...
    Te amo...❤️❤️❤️❤️

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    1. IMAXMay 1, 2023 at 11:25 AM

      This love is overwhelming and I am grateful 🥺🥺😭😭🥰🥰💕💕

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  7. AnonymousMay 1, 2023 at 12:40 AM

    I love this piece and thanks

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  8. IMAXMay 1, 2023 at 11:23 AM

    Thank you very much 🤭💕

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  9. IMAXMay 1, 2023 at 11:25 AM

    ❤️

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  10. AnonymousMay 3, 2023 at 1:28 AM

    Fine girl. I can assure you you have your thoughts straight. Boys can be scrums and it takes them an eternity to realize that

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  11. AnonymousJune 2, 2023 at 2:04 PM

    This is really awesome... I really enjoyed it.... I sure grabbed something.... nothing will spoil if you remain single, build yourself and surprise yourself with a house on your 30th birthday

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